One of the most common questions we get asked is about names.

 I will remain Leticia Sparkman after our wedding.  We did briefly toy with changing Brian's name to Brian Sparkman, but decided the best thing we can do is to both pay the same tribute.

 I will be Leticia May Hogue Sparkman, adding his name as a second middle name.  In turn, he will be Brian Arthur Sparkman Hogue.  (The fact this makes his initials BASH does not in the least deter him.)

What about the kids?  We'll cross that bridge later.  But I guarantee you we will not foist a monstrosity such as "Spogue" or "Harkman" on them.